Check Venue Off the List!

Wednesday, November 19, 2014

As I mentioned previously, I knew that I wanted to have my wedding on my Granddad's farm long before Abe proposed. Growing up, the farm was such a special place for my cousins and me. We would spend long summer days swimming and walking through the woods that surround the property. As a family, we have celebrated countless birthdays and holidays in the old brick house that we now all consider Home. 


Spending summertime on the farm with my cousins and sister was always fun!
In May 2014 we threw a baby shower for my sister at the house!

This past weekend we were finally able to visit my Granddad and ask him if we could get married on the property next October. He immediately said yes and told us how excited he was that we wanted to have our day there. We plan on telling the rest of my family next week at Thanksgiving and I hope that they will be as excited as we are to have a big party on the farm!

In other news, finding a photographer is currently my largest stressor. While doing research, I have found that I want a professional photographer that will be there day of, quietly snapping away, getting candid and in the moment photos that I will cherish forever. I've searched high and low, all over Louisville and Lexington and am running into issues over availability and budget. Some that I love are already booked and others are so outrageously priced that I can't understand how anyone has enough money budgeted to book them! To me, photography is one of the most important things to splurge on for the big day since after the party is over, photos will be the things that last forever! So the search for the perfect photographer continues...





A Wedding Checklist

Thursday, November 13, 2014

So I've been reading a lot of wedding magazines and each one includes its own wedding countdown timeline (intimidating checklist included). Since I like lists and all things involving organization, I want to compile my own checklist that I can work on for the next eleven months (most of these come from Kentucky Bride and The Knot!).
  1. Announce engagement
  2. Pick a date
  3. Set a budget
  4. Decide on a venue
  5. Choose bridal party
  6. Collect pictures of dresses I like
  7. Create guest list
  8. Decide on wedding style/colors
  9. Contract photographer
  10. Plan engagement party
  11. Hire caterer
  12. Figure out alcohol situation
  13. Book party rentals (tent, tables/chairs, etc..)
  14. Select officiant
  15. Choose florist/meet with to determine vision
  16. Select musicians for ceremony and reception
  17. Engagement photos
  18. Throw engagement party in Northern KY
  19. Decide on dress/veil and purchase
  20. Decide on shoes and purchase
  21. Choose bridesmaids dresses and order them
  22. Look for honeymoon destinations
  23. Compile list of names and addresses for invitations
  24. Register for gifts
  25. Launch wedding website
  26. Send save the dates
  27. Find hotel for out of town guests/block rooms
  28. Choose attire for Abe and groomsmen
  29. Book honeymoon
  30. Choose transportation for wedding day
  31. Figure out where bridal party will get ready day of
  32. Cake tasting/select cake
  33. Finalize guest list
  34. Choose all invitations, thank you notes, etc and order them
  35. Order return address stamp from Etsy
  36. Plan rehearsal dinner/ book venue
  37. Plan bridesmaids luncheon with Mom
  38. Find info on marriage licenses
  39. Meet with officiant and review vows
  40. Choose any poems/music that will happen during the ceremony 
  41. Make a list of people giving toasts 
  42. Meet with photographer and discuss shots and locations
  43. Purchase gifts for attendants
  44. Purchase gift for Abe
  45. Guestbook (?)
  46. Verify accommodations for out of town guests
  47. Order wedding favors
  48. Select wedding bands
  49. Purchase any accessories for wedding day (yay statement necklaces!) 
    • Something old
    • Something new
    • Something borrowed
    • Something blue
    • Something monogrammed
  50. Send invitations (two months prior to date)
  51. Complete menu with caterer
  52. Make appointment for trial of wedding day hair
  53. Send wedding announcement to local newspapers
  54. Schedule alterations for me and bridal party
  55. Schedule appointments for hair treatments 
  56. Confirm all orders with each vendor
  57. Schedule final gown fitting
  58. Make welcome baskets for out of town guests
  59. Gather up gratuities for vendors 
  60. Make wedding day emergency kit
  61. Start breaking in shoes
  62. Print menu cards/table cards/programs
  63. Bachelorette party!
  64. Have showers
  65. Bury the bourbon (1 month prior to the date/time of wedding)
  66. Bridesmaids luncheon/get mani/pedis
  67. Distribute timeline/contacts to family/vendors
  68. GET MARRIED! 
I'm sure I'll add more to the list as we get more into planning, but this is a good start! It seems like a lot...but it should be fun!







Planning and Organizing

Sunday, November 9, 2014

Although we are only a little over one week into our engagement, wedding planning is in full swing!

Abe and I knew we wanted to get married and my Granddad's farm long before he asked me to marry him. It's a beautiful piece of land and it'll mean a lot to my family to have a wedding there! Since we knew that is where we wanted to get married, setting a date was the next step. We were able to choose a time of year that was best for us instead of choosing a date around when a venue had availability. With that said, we have deiced that our wedding date will be October 3, 2015! It feels very strange (but also exciting) to have an actual date set and marked on the calendar. Now we just need to visit my Granddad and confirm that it's ok to have a wedding on the property, but I don't think that'll be an issue!

In other news, my mom and I went to Macy's earlier this week and discovered they were having a Sip and Scan event for registering. Even though we are still pretty early on in planning, I immediately RSVP'd (yes, I was very very excited about this part). This event would give me one on one attention with an employee, which would be awesome and a lot less stressful! Also my mom encouraged us to go on and register for some things since she wants to throw us an engagement party soon! So today, Abe, my mom and I went to Macy's and met with the nicest employee! She got us signed up and set us loose in the store with a scanner.


We had a lot of fun walking around and selecting things to put on our registry (even Abe!). Even though we still need to add a lot of things to the list, I'm not too worried since we have lots of time!  

In organizing news, mom and I picked up a wedding planner from the bookstore and I've started filling it out and reading their recommendations. We have a lot to do over the next 11 months, but I'm sure we will get it all planned and ready!









We're Engaged!

Thursday, November 6, 2014

After blogging my way through Spain in 2013, I decided when another exciting adventure presented itself, I would consider blogging again. Well my friends, the ultimate exciting thing HAS happened. On October 31, 2014 (yes you read that correctly, Halloween) Abe asked me to marry him!


The week leading up to the big question I became suspicious. In October, Louisville puts on its pumpkin spectacular. Abe knew I wanted to go and he suggested that we go Halloween night. He also knew we had a Halloween party later that night and that I wanted to stay home and hand out candy, but he was insistent that we go. That day, I woke up and checked the weather for that night only to find that it was forecast to be cold, rainy, and maybe even a bit snowy. I doubled checked that he did in fact want to go that night, and he informed me that the tickets had already been purchased. It was settled. We were going.


He came home from work and we got ready for dinner. Normally before a party Abe and I pick up Chipotle and have a few pre party drinks at our apartment. This night, he told me that he wanted to take me somewhere special, specifically a new wine bar down the street called Louvino. We arrived, ordered our wine flights, and enjoyed some delicious supper.


After a few more glasses of wine, we decided that it was dark enough to head to the spectacular. We had been warned that there would be long lines, but were pleasantly surprised to find only a few others had braved the weather to see the pumpkins. Spectacular doesn't even begin to describe what we saw in the park. There were over 5,000 carved pumpkins glowing in the dark, strategically placed along a trail through a portion of the park. We were in awe (even though it was freezing and starting to rain).





I had a feeling this night was going to be special, but after we made our way through the park and back to the car, I began to doubt myself. Maybe my gut was wrong, maybe he would pop the question around Christmastime. We drove back home to get ready for the party. When we arrived, Abe had me go in the apartment first. I turned on the light to go up our stairs and he immediately turned it off again. It was then that I noticed the pumpkin at the top of the stairs shaped like an arrow. I slowly walked up the stairs and peeked into our glowing dining room...there in our home he had created our own pumpkin spectacular. Abe had carved "Will you marry me?" along with a Camino shell into pumpkins. He led me into the room and I immediately teared up...it was here, the day I had been waiting for. He dropped to his knee, said some very sweet things (all the while I kept saying "You're crazy! Oh my gosh!"), and then asked "Anna Katherine Rush, will you marry me?" and of course I said yes!

I then found out that our friends Logan and Emily had come to the apartment and set up the pumpkins and then hid in our living room to take photos of us after he popped the question (such a good surprise!). 



Turns out the night before when Abe went to Logan's to "watch football" he had enlisted his friends to carve all of the pumpkins!

After the shock had slightly subsided, we began calling family and friends. It was so fun and so exciting to spread the word! When everyone was called and texted, we got dressed in our Halloween costumes and headed to our party. Everyone there already knew that Abe was planning on asking that night, and they were so excited for us! 

This year we went as the Tooth Fairy and a little boy who lost his tooth!

We celebrated late into the night with champagne and scary Halloween movies! 

Now the wedding planning is in full force...I've stocked up on wedding magazines and am scouring the web for advice and inspiration! The next year is going to be so exciting and fun! I can not wait to begin this next step in my life with my best friend!